New Rules for Boy in Suit

You probably noticed that some blog entries were taken offline. As much as I'm hurt by what Brian did, he didn't deserve the hateful things I said on this blog about him. We talked last night and I never realized how much I did hurt him by some of the things I wrote or said about him.

So, because of this realization, I have formed some new guidelines for my blog writing.

1. I will still be very personal on my blog, but I will only be personal in regards to myself. I will write about how I feel and what I think about certain things and people.
2. No more writing about relationship problems before talking about them with Brian. He's been upset at times because he's read about a problem I was having with him on my blog before I told him about it.
3. Friends who comment on my blog have either written negative/mean or asked me if they can write negative/mean comments on my blog. I delete them or tell them no, respectively, because I don't like negativity or meanness. In the last few deleted entries, I did not follow my own standard. Going forward, I will not write negative or mean comments about other people. Frustrations, concerns, and opinions will still appear, but not outright cruelty.

I have to credit my conversations with Josh Moon in helping me establish these guidelines. Over the last two days, he's had many insightful thoughts about this blog and how it affects my relationship.